Spouse – Tired of asking

I am in my mid thirties, in search of a spouse and have been trying for the past 9 years or so. I am talking to someone now but that doesn't mean anything. I have talked to so many individuals over the span of time, have gone on a few dates here and there. I just want to get married to the right person. I'm so tired of the wait and trying. At the same time, nor do I want to end up with the wrong person. Pray for the Holy Spirit to heavily dwell in my love life.